That one thing you do is really weird and I'm not completely into it.
I don't want to have a fight because I hate fighting but I'm also mad at you. I'm glad you told me about it and actually, you handled it pretty well, and you know what, I handled it pretty well too. Again, it's cool though because they don't really matter and all your other qualities are seriously top notch.
The best thing to do is simply to let him know that you are the kind of girl to whom he should commit. Just hearing words like “commitment,” “girlfriend” and “relationship” can scare some men away.
Oh my god, where did you come from, most perfect person I have ever met?! /Wait, you listen to Dave Matthews Band and you're openly admitting that?
Kissing you is the best and hanging out with you is the best and also not having to date someone who is a total loser is the best!
Here, the advice IS coming from actual experts and in this case, six bona fide therapists! Ditch the long laundry list written by everyone else, but you! When getting to know someone in a new relationship, they want to know who you are today not how you were in a past relationship or lifetime.
DO talk about yourself as who you are today in the present and the values and goals you have for yourself in the future. DON'T monopolize the conversation or make yourself the highlight real, no one healthy or worthwhile being in a relationship with is interested in getting into a coupleship with a narcissist.