How to message guys on dating sites

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.

So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.

And work in a positive reference to one of their passions; showing you read their profile can score you major points.

That is EXACTLY the metaphor I use for private clients in describing the “tone” you want to capture in your initial contact.

You’d never hit on a guy at a bar by walking up to him and telling him that he’s cute, he seems nice, and that you’d like to buy him a drink.

After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.

Make sure your spelling and grammar are perfect; sounding illiterate is a huge turnoff.