” But we all know that beauty is only skin deep, so while we have a certain look that we all go for, that doesn’t mean that a person who fits our physical expectations are suited for us personality wise. So what do you do if you meet someone who you know will treat you like a queen, but he just doesn’t cut it for you in the looks or personality department?Do you ignore your natural instincts, wants and needs for a chance to explore something with a person who doesn’t quite fit your persona or taste, but makes you feel good?The Attraction Spectrum Every time we enter a room full of people, we make choices based upon our attractions: Whom do we notice? Deb, a young stockbroker from Chicago, once told me: “You know, it’s almost magical.
But in the back of my mind, I’m thinking, ‘‘I know I’m not the only one who’s ever been in this predicament, but most times, women use guys like this for financial reasons—or just to have a good time and get some free meals and movie tickets—stringing them along with no intentions of ever taking things to the next level.There were no silent moments, no awkward conversation and things really seemed to flow. I wanted to jump J's bones right from day one and, well, I still do!I met a man online a few months ago, and, to make a long story short, we met, we are a great match intellectually/emotionally.So I just went out on a date today with a guy I’m NOT sexually attracted to, at all. should I continue talking to him and give him a chance even though I’m not sexually attracted to him? I don’t know what to do because other than that he is just perfect and I like him very much, he makes me feel very good.But I am not sure if I should be making plans with a man I don’t feel much attraction for.(I’ve seen it happen quite a few times.) So I’m curious to know what the MN readers think about situations like this?Do you give the nice guy a try, the one who adores you and values your worth as a woman, despite the absence of attraction? Or do you wait for the next good guy to come around?But he started questioning why I joined a dating website in Florida if I was planning to move to New York in a few months. " And then he told me that if we really hit it off he'd move to NYC for me.Umm, I probably should've ran then but I just took it as him being sweet and ignored the me being creeped out part.