But relationships are more than just movies and dinners, and moonlight walks on the beach. Other research suggests that the ideal gap in relationships is 4.4 years, and divorced people tend to have a larger disparity in subsequent marriages. Young people usually pair up within their age group, as at that point in life their circle of communication is limited to people of about the same maturity. By then our circles of acquaintances grow to be more spread through generations, and personal values and life style become more important than how old the two partners are.
One of my most memorable experiences was dating a guy 20 years older when I was 21. Still, real-life couples rarely have a generation-long discrepancy between them.
He was amazing and so much more sophisticated than boys in my university group. Most often in married couples a man is older than a woman.
Many pairs continue a relationship that started back in high school, thus their difference will be smaller.
Research from Emory University shows the bigger the age gap in a marriage ... Now, at first that might sound like it makes sense.
Randal Olson is the one who analyzed the stats from Emory, making a graph that shows couples with a 5-year gap in age are 18 percent more likely to divorce, and those with a 30-year gap in age are a whopping 172 percent more likely to divorce.If you know Hollywood, then you know that Jessica Lowndes is not the first to date someone born in another decade.Love in Tinseltown doesn't see numbers, just all the feel-good, bubbly things that come with being in a nice relationship.But even just being one year apart puts you at a 3 percent higher divorce rate.Although, according to the knower-of-all-things, Facebook, those low age gaps are pretty common.In my thirties, I went in the other direction, dating a dude 11 years my junior. ) Although both ended rather badly, I feel like that while the gaping age difference didn’t directly cause either relationship’s demise, it certainly didn’t help. Prepare yourself to feel like an alien upon meeting their friends and family.Mostly because I wasn’t very graceful about handling it. Whichever way your May/December relationship skews, there are certain pitfalls you should do your best to avoid. My older boyfriend’s guy friends were fine with me (go figure), but most of his female friends gave me, and him, the hairy eyeball.It became more acceptable for both men and women to experiment with dating younger people.In my twenties, I dated a guy who was 12 years older than me. Sometimes, I felt like the old one.” I hear ya’, sister. When he got caught, he had his bank account seized and wages garnished. “Being older meant I could suss out the difference between artistic notions and, well, laziness.” 6.I used to refer to my younger man as “Junior Mint.” I found it hilarious, but he was less amused. I certainly wouldn’t have found any humor in him calling me “Old Spice.”I used to refer to my younger man as “Junior Mint.” I found it hilarious, but he was less amused. I certainly wouldn’t have found any humor in him calling me “Old Spice.” ” 2. “I was having sex while you were in kindergarten” is kind of gross. Even though I wasn’t exactly a teenager, I felt like a dumb, young piece in their presence.Constant reminders of the age difference can be entertaining, but they can pass easily into the realm of creepy. With the younger boyfriend, I had to contend with his buddies who yammered on about college and getting waaasted on frat-boy beverages like Jagermeister. While there are plenty of happy couples with decades between them (like Bruce Willis, Demi Moore, and their sweet, young second spouses), there are plenty more who never bridge that gap (Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer, to name but one).